A Good Neighbor

The Yorktown United Methodist Church
Pastor Roy Grubbs

        June 8, 2008                                                     Deuteronomy 6:1-9
4th Sunday after Pentecost    
                         Luke 10:25-37

As I watched the news this week, I was shocked.  I am sure many of you have seen the terrible footage on TV where two cars crossed over the yellow line on a two-lane road and struck an elderly man crossing the street.  The cars were illegally going around another car that was making a turn.  But apparently, they did not want to slow down; so they went around and hit the man – who was just crossing the street, headed to the store.  This was a busy street.  What made it so much worse was that as he lay there, bleeding, no one came to help him.  The footage shows many, many people driving past or walking up to him and then walking away.  There were some who called 9-11, but it took a while for that to happen.  I want to know, what has happened to our society?  What has happened where people can no longer turn to their neighbors in times of need?  Is this how we are called to live our lives?  Is this how we love God and one another?

On that last night, Jesus ate, drank, and prayed with the disciples.  He had shared with them everything they needed.  Jesus spent three years with the people teaching, healing, praying, eating, laughing, and weeping.  He was truly relational, working to mend brokenness and to guide us on the right path.  He felt compassion for people and healed many, not just in body, but in spirit as well.   

But Jesus wasn’t this out of touch person.  He made very close friends – not just the disciples, but others like Mary, Martha and Lazarus.  He enjoyed life to its fullest.  When I shared my thoughts on this topic with Gina, she said “When I think of Jesus as Friend, I think of someone who is going to sit down with you and have a cup of coffee and a cinnabon, someone I can relate to.”  Jesus did have a lot of joy in his life.  Reading the text, we see Jesus enjoying eating with people, celebrating at a wedding, and welcoming the little children that approached him.  I imagine Jesus laughing with people.  They may not have had a coffee and a cinnabon back in those times, but it seems clear that his life was full of immeasurable joy.  And this joy ran much deeper than we can imagine.  Jesus tells his friends “I am the vine and you are the branches.”  He provides the lifeblood we need to live, to flourish, and to bear fruit.   But what is this fruit?  Jesus clarifies by telling us to “love one another as I have loved you.”  The love Jesus is talking about is not easy.  It is not a love of receiving.  It is giving.  It means sacrificing oneself for another, even someone we do not know.  “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” (John 15:13)  To love others like Jesus means to welcome the stranger, to feed the hungry, to touch the “untouchables,” to eat with sinners, to stand up for those persecuted, and even be willing to sacrifice one’s life for another.  It is self-less living. 

We need to realize that every moment of our lives is an opportunity to love others.  And for those who deal with children, this is very important.  They learn from our example; they look past our words, to our actions and our inactions.  If Jesus calls us to love one another as he loved us, what example are we living?  What are we modeling for others?

I’d like to share a story with you.  A family is out for a relaxing drive down the highway on a Sunday afternoon.  Suddenly, the two children begin to yell to their father to stop the car.  There’s a kitten on the side of the road looking sick and lost.  The father says, “So there’s a kitten on the side of the road.  We’re having a drive.”  “But Daddy, you must stop and pick it up or it will die!”  “Well then it will have to die.  We don’t have room for another animal with the zoo we already have at the house.  No more animals.”  “We never thought our Daddy would be so mean and cruel as to let a kitten die.”  Finally, the mother turns to her husband and says, “Dear, you’ll have to stop.”  He returns to the spot.  He goes out to pick the kitten up, who is just skin and bones, sore-eyed, and full of fleas.  When he reaches down, with the last bit of energy the kitten can muster, it bares teeth and claws.  Hisss!  He picks up the kitten by the loose skin at the neck, puts it in the car, and says, “Don’t touch it.  It probably has leprosy.” 

When they get home, the children care for the kitten.  They give it several baths and lots of warm milk.  The father allows the children to let the kitten sleep inside with the nice warm bed they have made.  Several weeks later, the father feels something rub against his leg – the cat.  He reaches down to it, carefully making sure no one is looking.  This time, the cat arches its back to receive a pet.  This is not the same cat.  It has received true love from this family.  It has been nursed back to health – given food, shelter, and a warm new bed.  This is the kind of love we are called to give one another.  

I bet we can identify with all of the characters in this story, can’t we?  When have we been like that kitten - alone on the side of the road, miserable, needing some Good Samaritan to help us?  When have we been like the Mother, staying neutral, hesitating to do the right thing?  When have we been like the Father, where God’s love works through us even when we hate every minute of it?  Or when have we been like those children that stand up for someone, or in this case, something else?  Giving up a part of ourselves for someone else – these children modeled the love Jesus was talking about.

You know, its funny how children model loving one another so well.  But what do they learn from us as they watch, as they see?  What do they think watching the same footage we see of this pedestrian struck and no one coming to his aid? 

Many of you have heard the stories about how parents get out of control at sports games.  They can get so wrapped up in winning that nothing else matters.  Never mind that the kids have improved immensely in skills, like passing the ball or swinging the bat.  All that matters is winning.  I noticed a sign posted at a High School Gym.  It warned spectators to only say positive comments - cheer for your team, but don’t make negative comments to the other team.  For a sign like that to be posted, I guess some pretty competitive comments must have been made.  Now don’t get me wrong, I love winning too.  But after reading a story several years ago, I think about winning a little differently. 

In a fourth grade class, the teacher put on a “balloon stomp.”  Each child had a balloon tied to his or her leg and the object was to obliterate everyone else’s balloon without letting anything happen to yours.  The teacher gave the signal and they leapt ferociously at each other.  In a few seconds it was over; only one balloon remained.  But then another class came in full of special education students.  It took a few moments before they caught on to what they were supposed to do.  They went around methodically getting their balloons stomped.  One student held their balloon in place while another popped it.  And then they reciprocated.  When all the balloons were gone, the whole class cheered in unison.  Instead of playing the game to determine the winner, they played the game helping one another, fostering generosity, trust, cooperation, gentleness, and concern for one another.  Instead of winning at all costs, these kids found a creative way to model the kind of friendship Jesus meant for us. 

Are there any better two words that define friendship better than Jesus Christ? - The One who came to live among us, to teach us, to heal us, to carry us when we are heavy-laden, to share in our joys and our sorrows – To laugh with us and to take time to love our children.  Like the disciples, we now know everything we need to know as well.  There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for a friend.  Jesus calls us his friends.  He gave his life for you and me, and he calls us to share that love in the world.   I would invite you to share the Friendship in Jesus you have received with someone this week.  Look for ways to help others, even those you do not know.  You may be just the light they need at that precise moment.  Share the joy with someone that Jesus is your Eternal Friend.  Share the love of God with one another and together, let’s make this world a brighter place.  Amen. 

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