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PASTOR'S MESSAGE
                                                         
"DEALING WITH ADVERSITY":
 
   
Howard Thurman's book, Disciplines of the Spirit, contains an illustration that I can identify with.  Mr. Thurman told of the time when as a young boy he had gotten the chance to play softball with the big boys for the first time.  "Though I was frightened," he said, "and I could hardly manage the bat, when I turned away after three strikes, there was so much more to me than there had been before."  Sometimes the outcome of something is not as important as what you learned in the effort that was made.
     His name was Gary.  He was big.  He was seventeen.  He was mean, and he drove a car while the rest of us walked or rode our bikes.  I remember Gary because every warm morning on my way to school as a seventh grader I had to pass by the split rail fence near the sidewalk juest before you reached school property.  The tough upper classmen would sit on that fence and as you walked by they would shake you down. Every morning they would blow cigarette smoke in your face, or just basically let you know who was boss.  The thing you learned early was to show no fear and to keep your mouth shut.  They never really hurt anybody, but fear was their game.  Gary was one of the leaders, and his reputation was that he stuffed seventh graders into their lockers for kicks and that he liked to break fingers and arms.  It was tough being twelve years old when Gary was around.
     In those days in the winter we played hockey on Sunset Pond in North Chagrin Reservation of the Metro Parks.  Some of us owned skates.  We had several real hockey pucks, but we made our sticks out of old pieces of wooden flooring that we screwed, nailed and glued together.  As I remember it there were two teams.  There was the team named the Mill Ridge Maulers and us, the other team, the Metro Park Drive Rangers.  As I remember, it was a pride thing.  The guys used the hockey games in the park as a way to brag a little and to claim a little piece of glory in a world made up of bigger, older and tougher kids.  Seventh grade was the bottom rung of the pecking order and were the bait not the trophy fish.
      The winter of 1959 and 60 was good and cold. Sunset Pond froze early and stayed frozen into mid March.  The hockey games in the park were hotly contested, and more often than not, we, the Rangers had managed to hand the Maulers their lunch, that is, until the day that Gary became an official member of the Mauler's team.  He declared himself the goallie and designed himself a new goal that was exactly as wide as the snow shovel he used as his goalie stick.  Since it was impossible to score, the Mauler's record began to improve.  After a couple of scoreless nights and subsequent losses, we, the Rangers, decided on a bold move.
      What we decided on was kind of like a flying wedge in football.  After the initial faceoff of Gary's third game in goal, the Ranger six, including our goalie charged toward the Mauler goal without the puck, but with fire in our eyes.  As a mighty wedge we hit Gary high.  We hit him low, and we knocked him hard onto the ice.  Thank goodness the snow was deep and we could run even with our skates on.  Once we knocked him down, we never looked back.  It was one quarter mile from Sunset Pond to Metro Park Drive, and we got there in record time.  Doors were locked and drapes were drawn.  Gary never came by.
     The following morning was cold and crisp.  I was shocked to see one solitary figure sitting on the fence just before the sidewalk reached the school drive.  I felt the fear well up within me.  There was no place to run and no place to hide.  I kept walking when suddenly the figure sitting on the fence leaped onto the sidewalk in front of me.  Before I could react, he had grabbed me by the shoulders and stopped me dead in my tracks.  I prepared to meet my Maker when Gary said, "Hey Punk, I enjoyed that hockey game last night," and then he let go of me and laughed. I still remember to this day the sound of his voice as he continued, "That hockey is a rough game."
     I kept walking and never looked back, but there was now something different about me.  I felt good.  I was powerful and I would never again be the same.  Almost thirty years ago Herb Brooks and the U.S. Olympic Hockey team beat the Russians in perhaps the greatest sports event in Olympic history.  It was David beating Goliath.  It was the little guy topping the big guy.  In his pregame talk Herb Brooks delivered this short and powerful message. "Gentlemen," he said, "You were born to play this game."  Each of us was born to overcome adversity, and with God's help the Giants of this world can still be whittled down to our size.
    

                                                                                            Rev. Dave

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