Family Pledge of Non-violence

Making peace must start within ourselves and in our family.  Each of us, members of the family of Christ, commit ourselves as best we can to be nonviolent and peaceable people:

RESPECT OF SELF AND OTHERS

To respect myself and affirm others, and to avoid uncaring criticism, hateful words, physical attacks, and self-destructive behavior.

COMMUNICATE BETTER

To share my feelings honestly, to look for safe ways to express my anger, and to work at solving problems peacefully.

LISTEN CAREFULLY

To listen carefully to one another especially those who disagree with me, and to consider other's feelings and needs rather than insisting on having my own way.

FORGIVE

To apologize and make amends when I have hurt another, to forgive others, and to keep from holding grudges.

RESPECT NATURE

To treat the environment and all living things, including our pets with respect and care.

PLAY CREATIVELY

To select entertainment and toys that support our family's values, and to avoid entertainment that makes violence look exciting, funny, or acceptable.

BE COURAGEOUS

To challenge violence in all forms when ever I encounter it, at home, at school, at work, or in the community, and to stand with others who are treated unfairly.