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Philippians
4:8 says to us, Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever
is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,
whatever is commendable---if there is any moral excellence and if
there is any praise---dwell on these things. Here is a
little story I dug up from another Church Newsletter but I thought it
was quite worthy to pass on to you. I have no idea who the
author is but I thank him or her nonetheless for something to think
about as we compare our lives with the above verse.
THE
STRANGER
A
few years after I was born, my Dad met a stranger who was new to our
small Texas town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated with
this enchanting newcomer and soon invited him to live with our
family. The stranger was quickly accepted and was around from
then on. As I grew up, I never questioned his place in my
family. In my young mind, he had a special niche. My
parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from
evil, and Dad taught me to obey. But the stranger...he was our
storyteller. He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with
adventures, mysteries and comedies. If I wanted to know
anything about politics, history or science, he always knew the
answers about the past, understood the present and even seemed able
to predict the future! He took my family to the first major
league ball game. He made me laugh, and he made me cry.
The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didnt seem to
mind. Sometimes Mom would get up quietly while the rest of us
were shushing each other to listen to what he had to say, and she
would go to the kitchen for peace and quiet. (I wonder now if
she ever prayed for the stranger to leave.) Dad ruled our
household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt
obligated to honor them. Profanity, for example, was not
allowed in our home...Not from us, our friends or any visitors.
Our longtime visitor, however, got away with four-letter words that
burned my ears and made my dad squirm and my mother blush. My
Dad didnt permit the liberal use of alcohol. But the
stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular basis. He made
cigarettes look cool, cigars manly and pipes distinguished. He
talked freely (much too freely!) about sex. His comments were
sometimes blatant, sometimes suggestive, and generally
embarrassing. I now know that my early concepts about
relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger. Time
after time, he opposed the values of my parents, yet he was seldom
rebuked...And NEVER asked to leave. More than fifty years have
passed since the stranger moved in with our family. He has
blended right in and is not nearly fascinating as he was at
first. Still, if you could walk into my parents den
today, you would still find him sitting over in his corner, waiting
for someone to listen to him talk and watch him draw his
pictures. His name?
We
just call him, TV
P.S.
He has a wife now&ldots; we call her Computer
Quite
a story. Maybe its time for a fast - even just a week to
see how life can be better and more like Philippians 4:8.
Your
brother in Christ,,
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