Sexual abuse within the ministerial relationship occurs when a person within a ministerial role of leadership (pastor, educator, counselor, youth leader or other position of leadership) engages in sexual contact or sexualized behavior with a congregant, client, employee, student, staff member, co-worker or volunteer.
Sexual arassment is any unwanted sexual advance or demand, either verbal or physical, that is reasonably perceived by the recipient as demeaning, intimidating, or coersive. Sexual harassment includes, but is not linited to, the creation of a hostile or abusive working environment or intimidating or coercive behavior that threatens or results in a tangible employment action (Book of Discipline Paragraph 161I).
Gender harassment is behavior that is harassing in nature against a woman because she is a woman and against a man because he is a man.
Sexual harassment is any unwanted sexual advance or demand, either verbal or physical, that is reasonably perceived by the recipient as demeaning, intimidating, or coercive. Sexual harssment includes, but is not limited to, the creation of a hostile or abusive working environment resulting from discrimination of the basis of gender (Book of Discipline Paragraph 161.
Sexual abuse within the ministerial relationship involves a betrayal of sacred trust, a violation of the ministerial role and exploitation of those who are vulnerable. Similarly, gender or sexual harassment are usually understood as exploitations of power relationships rather than as exclusively sexual or gender issues.
Sexual and gender harassment, sexual abuse and misconduct of a sexual nature within the life of the Church interfere with its moral mission .East Moriches United Methodist Church prohibits and will not tolerate these behaviors, which are sinful, demeaning, abusive and wrong. The East Moriches United Methodist Church commits itself to fair and expedient investigation of any complaint of sexual and gender harassment, sexual abuse or misconduct of a sexual nature within the church and to take action deemed appropriate and in complience with the Book of Discipline . Further, the East Moriches United Methodist Church bears affimative responsiblility to create an environment of hospitality for all persons, male or female which is free of these sins and encourges respect, equality and kinship in Christ.
Some instances of harassment can be resolved informally by conversation between the parties or facilitaed mediation. In all other instances, the conduct must be reported immediately to the chair or another member of the Pastor-Parish Relations Committee and the pastor in charge. If the conduct involves the pastor in charge or another clergy person, it must be reported to the pastor's supervisor, district superintendent or the bishop.
The East Moriches United Methodist Church will not retaliate against any person who brings forward a complaint. All staff leaders and members are expected to immediately report any knowledge of harassment, abuse or misconduct to any one of the persons listed above. Prompt and appropriate investigation and corrective action will be taken, including discipline. Persons who make false accusations will be disciplined.
While the East Moriches United Methodist Church cannot guarantee absolute confidentiality, it will make every reasonable effort to maintain confidentiality by disclosing information about the complaint only on a "need to know" basis and as necessary to promote God's call for justice, reconciliation and healng.
Anyone who has any questions or concerns about this policy or the issues addressed is encouraged to air those questions or concerns to the PPRC or a Trustee.