Stewardship Moment

October 4, 2009

Simplicity

 

Our Finance Committee has chosen What is Enough? as this year’s Stewardship Campaign theme.  We are using a modified version of a campaign by Adam Hamilton that invites us to “Discover Joy through Simplicity and Generosity”.  We have added faith, hope and contentment as other ways to look at the question What is Enough?

 

Today we will think about Simplicity.

 

In 1848 Shaker Elder Joseph Brackett began his song Simple Gifts with “’Tis the gift to be simple, ‘tis the gift to be free”.  Simple here does not refer to a simpleton, but to a simple life style, a life style that doesn’t try to “keep up with the Jones”, that isn’t based on buying something that is only wanted but not needed, a life style that doesn’t over spend.  The gift of being free can mean free from debt but also free to follow one’s purpose.

 

You’ve heard stories or you may be one who lived through the 1930’s and the era of the Great Depression.  Most people who lived then learned to live simply.

 

An example of the thinking at that time was in the September issue of Guideposts.  An article by Norman Vincent Peale’s daughter recalls a story of her parents during the Depression.  Norman was the pastor of the University Methodist Church in Syracuse, NY at the time.  He worried how the church would survive, how his family would survive, how they would pay bills.  Mrs. Peale was the one who set their priorities.   She said, “Things will be fine.  All we need to do is give.”  They were able to have enough to give by being thrifty and frugal, in other words, by simplifying their life style.  They also may have been willing to give before they spent anything else rather than to give from the leftovers.

 

This must have been the conclusion of many people at the time.  This was pointed out to me at the Lay Academy workshop on Stewardship I attended during the spring given by a United Methodist clergyman who at the time was also in charge of giving at Guideposts.  He included an interesting chart in his presentation that compared giving and US per capita income from 1916 to 2000.  During the depression, people were giving more of their income than the years before or since.  Even though they made less, they gave a larger part of their income.

 

Although stories of the 1930’s may be stories of the lack of material things, they are stories of enjoying simple things and helping others.  We saw this in the 1970’s TV program, Walton’s Mountain, based on Earl Hamner’s life. 

Our biblical ancestors realized that acquiring things has no meaning.

The author said in Ecclesiastes 2:10-11 (New International Version)

 10 I denied myself nothing my eyes desired;
       I refused my heart no pleasure.
       My heart took delight in all my work,
       and this was the reward for all my labor.

 11 Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done
       and what I had toiled to achieve,
       everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind;
       nothing was gained under the sun.

and

Paul said in 1 Timothy 6:10b (New International Version)

 

Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith, and pierced themselves with many griefs.

 

What can you do if you feel like those who buy everything they want, who hoard or lust for money, and who feel life is meaningless?  

 

To start you might simplify spending by avoiding impulse buying.  Not only does more stuff cost you more money but also the stuff clutters your home.  There are people whose homes get so cluttered they get bigger and bigger homes and even rent storage space for the stuff that they cannot use.  The more they acquire, the more they want. One also can impulse buy in the grocery store.  If you take the lure of the specials at the end of the aisle put there for you to grab, you end up with things you do not need.  If you buy more perishables than you can eat, you have to throw them away.  They cannot be stored in extra rooms or in a storage unit.  For these people their life’s purpose seems to be acquiring stuff that is not used and only stored or thrown away.

 

Cutting down spending also might mean limiting credit card buying for things that cannot be paid off each month.  Some people have so much debt that they have trouble playing the minimum amount due.  The stress of that knowledge does little to simplify.  

 

Despite the claim of the media that the country’s economic health is based on increased production and increased consumption, we don’t exist to consume.  The big question then becomes, what is our purpose here?

 

The Adult Sunday School class is studying Rick Warren’s book The Purpose Driven Life.  Although we have gone over only the first few chapters, we have been challenged to think about what drives us. 

 

What is it that guides, controls or directs you?  It could be guilt, resentment, anger, fear, the need for approval, materialism.  You might be driven to acquire things or to pay for things that have already been acquired.  You might be driven to make more or you might be driven to give more.  Are you driven by God’s purpose for you?  Your purpose becomes the standard you use to evaluate everything you do.

 

We are not here by chance.  We are all here for a reason.  Have you discovered yours?

 

When you discover your real purpose, you can be guided, and directed by God.  There are many benefits to a purpose-driven life.  Paraphrasing Rick Warren, he says that knowing your purpose gives meaning to your life, simplifies your life, focuses your life, motivates your life and prepares you for the next life.

 

Thinking back to the Shaker song “’Tis the gift to be simple, ‘tis the gift to be free”, I challenge you to accept the gift to be simple and be free to let God direct your life.

 

-Carole Anderson

Stewardship Moment

October 11, 2009

Generosity - how much is enough?

I have questions for you -not really answers. But somehow in the process of asking myself these questions, I found myself feeling freer to trust that Christ would guide me to the answer. What I have learned as I pondered this question was that in letting go and giving freely, with love and joy in my heart, I can do what is right in the eyes of the Lord our God.

We all get numerous requests in the mail asking for donations and generally they are all good causes. How do you respond to these letters?

I struggle with what to do with the multitude of these requests.

I say, "Yes, I have enough to give". But then I get stuck on how much to write the check for.

Sometimes…I pitch these papers with heart wrenching stories and pictures in the garbage without opening them and have a brief pang of guilt that passes as life fills in the moments

Sometimes…I open them first and then pitch them as I look at the stack of bills for which I need to write checks.

Sometimes…I read about what the money will be used for and try to figure out if this is something I believe in.

I keep coming back to the idea that I have enough.

So, why do I struggle so with letting my money go where I know it will do way more good than it will do in my own pocket? Why is it so hard to know how much to give and when and to whom to give to?

I try to rationalize that I need to keep my family happy and healthy, fed and clothed, but what is enough for us?

Maybe that is part of the answer. What is enough for us?

If we can define that for ourselves, then it will be easier to know when and how to let generosity flow from us to others in love.

So what is enough for you?

I suggest you spend some time trying to figure that question out. I don't have your answer. Make a list. What do you already have? Is it enough?

Matthew 16:25 reads, "In the very act of losing our lives, we find life."

Do you sometimes feel that letting go of money is like letting go of life? Why is that?

If you arrived home from work to find the Publishers Clearing House on your door-step with one of those enormous sized checks that had a string of zeros that barely fit on the paper, what would you do?

Would there be enough for all of your dreams?

Would you be able to have a better relationship with God because you finally had more money to give?

God is waiting for you to express your joy in the gift of Jesus Christ.

How much is enough?

Do we stand poised with the opportunity to make a difference by sharing our wealth and cling desperately to it in fear of not having enough? Enough what?

Or, is it more that we don't want to be caught short when the next "must have" item makes its world debut, the car needs a new head gasket, an emergency trip to the ER occurs, or college tuition bills show up in the mail? These things happen; they are events that we need to deal with everyday and we do just that. We find ways to take care of our needs and do the right thing.

If the church needed to send the youth to help others in need, what would we do? We would figure out how to give whatever we could; we'd struggle and maneuver and then give with joy in knowing that we were spending money where it would solve problems and bring warmth, food, health, teach and empower. It feels right to give and to be generous.

Tithing is a gift. True gifts are given with love and a desire to please. We think about what the person we are getting the gift for really needs or, would enjoy, and we search for the best gift. We take great joy in a gift well received. Isn't this what Christ is asking us to do through our gifts to the church? Generosity brings joy for the giver and the receiver.

Psalm 24:1 and Leviticus 25:23 give us some insight into the concept of gifts:

"Life is a gift" and "Everything belongs to God".

Is life in Christ enough?

Did Christ give us enough?

Jesus struggled with letting go of his life for us…. of giving everything he had, to offer us eternal life in heaven. He spent time by himself out in the desert, he called out to God asking why, but he knew what he had to do. I think each of us has that answer inside of us too if we are willing to listen quietly.

Why was this gift of life given to us?

As I taught my 6th graders about the natural cycles in ecosystems this week and let this question, "How much generosity is enough?" sift through my brain, I realized that even all of my possessions, the money I earn, and what it can buy with it, is part of the endless cycle of matter changing form over time - the trick is not to hoard it, but to find ways to make it flourish and grow. When my generosity brings joy, health and harmony to those in need, it creates more of what Christ wants for all of us. We are only here for a short while, as are all of our worldly possessions. What can we do with what we have, to bring us in closer relationship with Christ? Generosity brings us closer to God.

In the act of giving we find blessings flowing in all directions, in places and ways we never expected. We begin to realize that the gifts given freely and with love defy the laws of matter; they do expand and grow and can create more for the giver and the receiver. Letting go of our gifts does not deplete us, it expands our connections to one another and ultimately to God, who asks us to love and care for one another.

When we give out of duty, we feel obligated and pushed. When we give out of love, we feel joy in knowing that our gifts matter and are valued.

Being generous is a choice we make that influences how we experience life.

In challenging myself to answer some of these questions I have come to realize that choosing to do Christ's work here, in this place, at this time, is choosing to follow in his path. I do not know what is enough for you. I can only share the questions that open the door to considering an answer that is personal for each of us.

I can say that generosity grows out of love and expands what God wants for all who share in his greatest gift - Christ Jesus.

I'd like to share with you verses 17 - 19 from 1Timothy chapter 6. These words helped me begin to answer the question, How much generosity is enough? Maybe they will help you too.

As for those who in the present age are rich, command them not to be haughty, or to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but rather on God who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. They are to do good, to be rich in good works, generous, and ready to share, thus storing up for themselves the treasure of a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of the life that really is life.

Thank you.



-Barbara Rogers

Stewardship Moment

October 18, 2009

What is Enough Faith?

 

     How much faith do we need in God?   What if we feel we don’t have enough?  How much faith do all of us require?  How do we measure the amount of faith we need in God’s eyes?

 

      Since faith in God seems to be an individual endeavor, can having enough faith in God be determined by our individual relationship with him?

 

     A story is told of an elderly grandmother who lived with her daughter for many years.  The daughter devoted her time to taking care of her grandmother.  As time passed, it became more   difficult to do all that was necessary to maintain her grandmother’s health.  So one day she told her grandmother that there was little she could do for her and that she is just to had to “ trust in God” The elderly grandmother replied “ Has it come to that” The truth is that all of us need to strive for faith in God.

 

     Do all the trials and tribulations of our daily living center around our faith journey?  Why do some people seem to have a more positive attitude towards life?  Do these people have more faith or are they just lucky? In observing human behavior over the years, I have been amazed to observe that people who enjoy life, people who enjoy helping others, people who have a positive outlook in life are people who have developed and have maintained a strong faith.                  

 

     In Mathew 6, 25 Jesus tells us not to worry about things many of us worry about every day such as what we eat or drink or what we wear, you know the things we want to acquire that make us feel happy.  God knows all of our needs and he wants us to continue to seek him out for righteousness in him.

 

     It is the nature of many to worry, but worrying itself does not solve our problems.  Jesus related this to all of his disciples.  In Matt 8:23, while traveling in a boat, suddenly a large wave swept over the boat and his disciples all thought that they would die.  Ironically, Jesus was with them, but was sleeping.  They woke him up because they thought they were going to drown and Jesus replied “ You of little faith.”

 

      This verse in the bible indicates that we all have too little faith.  Do we have enough individual faith in our lives to survive hard times? 

 

      A friend of mine had a business that fell upon hard times. The credit of his company was questioned.  A member of his team had not been honest in paying the monthly bills.  His business was on the verge of bankruptcy, but my friend Joe had the faith in himself and his one remaining partner to search out ways to bring this company back in profitability.  He put all he had on the line to make the business successful again.  He re-mortgaged his house; he went to the local banks for loans. He convinced lenders to trust him and have faith in his abilities.  He had faith in the business but most importantly he prayed to God for help.  Almost instantly his business made a turn for the better.   To this day he tells me “ the Man upstairs had everything to do with my comeback.”

 

     One day in college I was taking a very important final exam.  Although I had studied for this exam, I knew the test would be difficult for me because it covered the entire semester’s work. Needless to say, many of us in that Constitutional Law class were nervous. As soon as the professor passed out the Blue Books (an essay test) He looked at us and stated. Take a deep breath and don’t sweat the small stuff.  He then told us to remember,  “ Everything is the small stuff” I thought about what he had said and immediately felt at relieved and at ease.

 

     We need to have faith in God in everything we do in life.  Will we have enough? Probably not, but God looks at our persistence, drive and desire to gain the faith we have through him.  That faith makes a difference!!!

 

      The faith that makes the difference is the belief that God has his hands in everything we do in our lives.  The faith that makes the difference is the faith we have in our partners, our children, and in our church.  God’s faith in us is forever.  Our faith in God is determined by our belief that we have a trust, a conviction and assurance that God will always be with us in everything we do throughout our lives.

 

 

-Joe Sadowski
 

STEWARDSHIP MOMENT

OCTOBER 26, 2009

WHAT IS ENOUGH JOY?


WHEN I WAS ASKED TO SPEAK THIS MORNING MY FIRST INCLINATION WAS TO SAY NO - BUT BEFORE I KNEW IT I WAS SAYING YES - REALIZING IN MY HEART THAT I DON'T DO ENOUGH FOR ELM PARK CHURCH.   MOMENTS AFTER SAYING YES  I THOUGHT - WHAT HAVE I DONE!!!  THEN I STARTED TO THINK ABOUT ALL THE JOY AND PEACE AND COMFORT ELM PARk MEMBERS AND PASTORS HAVE GIVEN ME OVER MANY YEARS - I WAS MARRIED IN THIS CHAPEL AND MY DAUGHTER WAS CHRISTENED IN THIS SANCTUARY -  CERTAINLY TWO VERY JOYFUL OCCASIONS IN MY LIFE. 

ON EVERY LEVEL TODAY WE CAN LOOK AROUND AND ASK WHAT REALLY IS ENOUGH - WHAT REALLY GIVES US JOY AND HAPPINESS IN OUR LIVES.   CERTAINLY GREED AND ALWAYS WANTING MORE HAVE LED TO MANY OF THE PROBLEMS WE AS AMERICANS ARE FACING TODAY.  NOTHING SEEMS TO BE ENOUGH - NOT ENOUGH MONEY, NOT ENOUGH PRESTIGE, NOT ENOUGH RECOGNITION AND WE GET SO INVOLVED IN SO MANY ENDEAVORS - NOT ENOUGH TIME TO REALLY FIND JOY IN OUR EVERY DAY LIVES. 

BUT THERE ARE MANY HERE TODAY WHO SURELY DO ENOUGH FOR OUR CHURCH.  WE ARE BLESSED WITH FAMILIES AND INDIVIDUALS WHO ALWAYS RISE TO THE NEEDS OF ELM PARK, WHO KEEP OUR CHURCH ALIVE AND GROWING AND CONTINUE TO SERVE THE PEOPLE IN OUR AREA - ALWAYS WITH JOYFUL SPIRITS.  

ELM PARK HAS BEEN BLESSED WITH PASTORS WHO INDEED DO ENOUGH.
PASTORS WHO HAVE OFFERED UNCONDIDTIONAL SUPPORT AND LOVE TO SO MANY IN TIMES OF SADNESS AND LOSS AND HAVE SHARED WITH MANY IN TIMES OF HAPPINESS AND JOY.  DO WE APPRECIATE THEM ENOUGH?

PERHAPS IT IS TIME FOR ALL OF US TO TAKE A MOMENT TO REFLECT, PRAY AND DECIDE  WHAT IS REALLY ENOUGH - WHAT BRINGS REAL
JOY TO OUR LIVES.  PERHAPS IT IS TIME TO THINK ABOUT HOW MUCH WE CAN GIVE BACK - TO SHARE OUR MANY BLESSINGS, TALENTS AND RESOURCES TO THIS WONDERFUL HOUSE OF GOD WE CALL ELM PARK. 

THE LORD HAS BLESSED ME WITH A WONDERFUL LIFE AND MY CAREER WITH FORMER GOVERNOR SCRANTON HAS GIVEN ME OPPORTUNITIES TO SEE MANY DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF SOCIETY.  I WILL CLOSE WITH ONE OF HIS FAVORITE VERSES OF SCRIPTURE:  PSALM 16 VERSE  3 - HOW EXCELLENT ARE THE LORD'S FAITHFUL PEOPLE!  MY GREATEST PLEASURE IS TO BE WITH THEM. 

LINDA KEENE

 

Stewardship Moment

November 1, 2009

What is Enough Hope?

 

I’d like to start with a passage from Psalm 71: 5-6.  “For You have been my hope, O Sovereign Lord, my confidence since my youth.  From birth I have relied on You; You brought me forth from my mother’s womb.  I will ever praise You.”

 

Hope is powerful, while the absence of hope can be devastating.  With faith and hope, we can build up a strong resolve, great enough to help us overcome the most challenging of trials.  But sometimes it can be difficult to find hope under daunting circumstances and overwhelming situations.  In such times and perhaps at all times, we need to look to each other and to God for strength, because with the Lord as our hope, no challenge is insurmountable.

 

If that is true, would it then be too much to hope that we could all live lives strong in faith and full of peace, joy, kindness, and generosity?

 

Is it too much to hope that we not only survive and get by during difficult times, but rather find that we have reserves to help our neighbors, our church, our community, and the world beyond?

 

I hope that it isn’t too much to hope for, but I believe that we need to do what we can to make such things possible.  Sometimes it may not be enough to simply hope and wait if we can help to bring about a change for the better.  If the Lord is our hope and we wish to praise Him for all that He has given us we should do all that we can to share our gifts and talents to those in need, for that is undoubtedly what our Lord hopes for from us. 

 

Trust in God, Hope for a brighter future, and do what you can to help bring that future closer to today.

 

-Patrick Fisk

November 8, 2009

CONTENTMENT, What is enough?


When I was asked to give this presentation, I thought, what might I say that hasn’t been said before. I could talk about my history here at Elm Park—Sunday school teachers, pastors, associate pastors (one of whom still visits from Ohio every summer), UMYF, —When I served in the Air Force, the letters I received from church members and pastors were a source of great comfort and sustenance--I was married here, my son was christened here, my parents and aunt were buried from here.

 

But today, I don’t speak profoundly or in platitudes, simply common sense. A dictionary definition of contentment is: a feeling of inner peace, satisfaction. The related scripture from Philippians reads as follows: “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.”

 

And from Paul’s 1st letter to Timothy—“Religion makes a person very rich if he is satisfied with what he has. What did we bring into the world? Nothing! What can we take out of the world? Nothing! So then, if we have food and clothes, that should be enough for us. --Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and are caught in the trap of many foolish and harmful desires, which pull them down into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a source of all kinds of evil.”

  

When I worked in sales, our sales team sometimes worried too much about what the competition was doing. When we did this, we were always advised (or we always discovered) that it was better to go “back to basics” and do what we did best, that is, our original sales strategy and techniques, to use our strengths.

 

That is true in life also, simplifying our lives brings contentment. Contentment could also be defined as the absence of greed combined with the absence of need.

 

How can we simplify our lives? I once had a college professor who, every Friday afternoon, would tell us, “Students, this weekend, everything in moderation”. Good advice.

 

As a church, and in our lives, we must, however, beware of letting contentment turn to complacency. Complacency quickly erodes our feeling of accomplishment and self-motivation, making us lazy and ineffective.

 

Through prayerful consideration, and with Thanksgiving fast approaching, we need to ask ourselves, “Are we content enough to share our bounty with others, through this church?”

 

We can have contentment through faith in God--if we’re content enough, we will make the right decisions when deciding how much of our time talents and treasures to give. Each one of us has to decide, “How much is enough?” If we’re content with what we’re giving, not only financially, but our time and talents also, we will have that feeling of inner peace.

 

-Bill Thompson