In Memory......2003
A Service of Committal of Ashes
A Service of Committal of Ashes
A plaque on one of our greenhouses reads:
With the sun on your back for warmth
And the song of the birds for mirth,
You are nearer the heart of God in a garden
Than anywhere else on Earth.
On September 30 this poem was read and our new rose garden was
the setting for "A Service of Committal of Ashes" for
Clara Ruth Anderson, Lucille Bovet, Leland Dellinger, Reva
McNabb, and Thelma Stouffer. The day was much like the poem. We
hope the Rose Garden will be used for residents to sit and
meditate, to enjoy the roses, or just be outside for the fresh
air.
Lee
Ola Foust
December 9,
1905......................................................September
24, 2003
Lee Ola Foust was born in Gibson County, Tennessee, the daughter
of John Kelly Foust and Nannie Elizabeth Hester Foust. She
attended a community school there, later graduating from high
school in Milan, Tennessee. During the following summer at a
revival she accepted a call for life service. In preparation, she
attended Lambuth College, Jackson, Tennessee, stopping after two
years to teach because of lack of funds. She returned and
received a BA in 1933. She again entered the teaching field to
repay student loans. In 1941 Lee Ola entered Scarritt College and
received her MA in 1942. She was commissioned a deaconess in New
York by Bishop Moore.
As all her training had been in kindergarten work, she was sent
by the Womans Division of The Board of Missions to Wolff
Settlement in Tampa, Florida. Lee Olas other appointments
included Whosoever Community Center in San Antonio, Texas, where
she helped organize a Cub Scout troop, Wesley Center in
Nashville, Tennessee, and Wesley Community Center in Chattanooga,
where she worked as a kindergarten teacher. After a sabbatical
leave she moved to Wesley Community Center in Atlanta, Georgia,
where she changed her work to service for senior citizens. She
retired in 1969 and moved to Brooks-Howell Home in 1984. Lee Ola
is survived by one sister, Charline.
Bishop Joseph R. Lance
October 15,
1925.................................................May 28, 2003
Bishop Joseph Rockwell Lance was a native of Merriutt, India, the
son of the late Rev. Rockwell Lance and Shrifa Singh Lance. He
was the fifth child of eight siblings. His father served
forty-two years in the Methodist Church in India. Bishop Lance
studied in India in Methodist educational institutions. In 1956
he received his Master of Theology degree from Garrett
Theological Seminary in Evanston, Illinois. Returning to India,
he served as the senior pastor of Christ Church, Delhi (India)
for eight and one-half years. In 1964 he was elected to serve as
the Executive Secretary of the Council of Christian Social
Concerns of the Methodist Church in India, in which capacity he
served for four years. In 1960 and 1966 he was elected to be a
missioner to the UMC in the United States under the Board of
Evangelism (Nashville), and traveled for that program in
Illinois, Indiana, Texas, and California. In 1968 he was elected
on the second ballot as a bishop of the Methodist Church in India
and served in that capacity for twenty-two years. He served as a
member of the Council of Bishops until the Methodist Church in
India became autonomous.
He was preceded in death by his first wife, Sushila Lance, in
1993. He is survived by his wife Faye Hackney-Lance, whom he
married in 1997. She is the widow of the Rev. E. A. Hackney, and
together they served as missionaries in India for twenty-four
years.Bishop and Mrs. Lance moved to the United States and
settled in Charlotte, North Carolina. In June 2001 they moved to
Brooks-Howell Home. On June 24, 2002, Bishop Lance was granted
U.S. citizenship. In addition to his wife, he is survived by a
brother, the Rev. Charles Lance of Janesville, Wisconsin, two
nephews, the Rev. Dr. Samuel R. Chand and Pardheep Dass, both of
Atlanta; and four stepsons, Mark, John, Paul and James Hackney.
Bishop Lance attended Biltmore United Methodist Church in
Asheville. Memorials may be made to Mountain Area Hospice or to
Faye Lance for Sat-Tal, India.
Elizabeth Nowlin
October 15, 1910..................................May 24, 2003
Elizabeth Nowlin was born in Martin, Tennessee, the eldest of two
daughters, to Carrie Mae V. Nowlin and Earl B. Nowlin. When she
was twelve the family moved to Corinth, Mississippi, Corinth
becoming her real home. She attended Mississippi State College
for Women, then enrolled in Scarritt college, where she earned BA
and MA degrees.
Commissioned a deaconess in 1946, Elizabeth was employed by the
Methodist Board of Education until her appointment to Centenary
Methodist Community Center, Nashville. She worked as a group
worker until becoming Executive Director in 1950.
During Sabbatical in 1954-55 she earned a Masters of Social Work
degree from Tulane University. She returned to Centenary until
1971, when the three United Methodist Centers (Bethlehem Center,
Wesley House and Centenary) were combined. She then became the
first Director of Social Service and Social Work at McKendree
Manor, a United Methodist Conference retirement home in
Hermitage, Tennessee. She served there until 1986.
One of Elizabeths greatest pleasures at Centenary was the
involvement in the education of students from Scarritt,
Vanderbilt University, Peabody College and the University of
Tennessee School of Social Work. She also traveled for the
National Division, The General Board of Global Ministries as a
consultant to community centers. She was an active member of West
End United Methodist Church while living in Nashville. In January
1995 Elizabeth joined the Brooks-Howell Home Family. She was a
member of Groce United Methodist Church. A sister, Frances Nowlin
Russell, preceded her in death. She is survived by a nephew,
Roger Russell, of Booneville, Mississippi, and a niece, Carolyn
Harrison, of Montgomery, Alabama.
Simmone
Van Ooteghen
December 23,
1927..........................................May 4, 2003
Simmone Van Ooteghem was born in Antwerp, Belgium, to
Charles and Mariette Van Ooteghem. She was raised in a Methodist
home, her parents being members of the Methodist Church in
Antwerp. Her father was a police officer and her mother was at
home, raising the family. She completed her elementary and
secondary education in Antwerp, partly during the German
occupation in Belgium, which made the school years challenging
for both students and teachers. After the war Simmone moved to
Zurich, Switzerland to study to become a registered nurse. She
completed her training in Bethanien, a Methodist Deaconess
hospital. Feeling a call to go into the mission field, she
furthered her studies in tropical medicine in Antwerp. Later she
received a BA in Religious Education at Scarritt College.
She was sent to the Belgian Congo in 1950 by the Womens
Division of Christian Service. There she was the only missionary
in charge of seven rural dispensaries, to which she traveled by
any means available. She served there until 1960 when political
conditions made it necessary for her to withdraw from the field.
She had hoped to return one day, but the deep wish never
materialized. In 1960 she moved to Tampa, Florida. From 1960 to
1993 she continued her nursing career in Tampa and Brooksville,
Florida, working in hospitals and doing community nursing.
Patients really loved her and always asked to be nursed by her.
Her parents and brother followed her to the United States in
1964. Simmone became a resident of Brooks-Howell Home on April
27, 1999. She is survived by a brother, John, of Atlanta, Georgia
and a sister, Monique Bessems, of Ontario, Canada.
May
Louise Titus
November 30, 1909........................March 22, 2003
May Titus was
born in Peru, New York, the daughter of the Rev. And Mrs. Home F.
Titus. She had one sister, Julia. May attended Syracuse
University and graduated from Hartford Theological Seminary in
1932. Later she did graduate work at Union Theological Seminary
and Columbia University. She served as Director of Christian
Education at First Methodist Church, Schenectady, New York, from
1933-1943, and then at First Presbyterian Church, Poughkeepsie,
New York, from 1943 to 1946.
In 1946 May moved to Nashville, Tennessee, where she served on
the staff of the Interboard Committee on Missionary Education,
with special responsibility in the missionary education of youth.
In addition to serving on the staff of Youth Caravan Training
Centers, she served in the leadership of the Youth Fund/Mission
Teams from 1965 to 1974. She participated in study-travel
seminars for youth in India, Africa, Southeast Asia, and the
United States. During sabbatical leave in 1961 she visited
twenty-three countries, giving special attention to
denominational and ecumenical work. She served in youth
leadership conferences in India and Indonesia for the World
Council on Christian Education. After retiring in 1973 she was
active in the Nashville chapter of the United Nations Association
and in West End United Methodist Church.
In October 1995 May and Lucille Bovet, her house mate of forty
years, became residents of Brooks-Howell Home. Lucille died in
June 2002. May was a member of Groce United Methodist Church and
Berry Temple United Methodist Women. She is survived by several
cousins, including Nancy Kirch of Brevard, North Carolina.
Memorial gifts may be made to Berry Temple United Methodist
Women, Groce United Methodist Church, Fellowship of
Reconciliation, or Brooks-Howell Home.
Mattie Lou Summey
December 8, 1914........................February 9, 2003
Mattie Louise Summey was born in Henrietta,
North Carolina, to Edgar Graham Summey and Jonnie Webb Summey.
She was the middle child of eight. When she was three, the family
moved to Race Path, North Carolina, and she graduated from
Cliffside High School. Her lifelong longing to become a teacher
was fulfilled after she finished training at Asheville
Teachers College and began teaching upper grades in the
heart of the Linville Mountains and in her home county.
Those years convinced Mattie Lou that she would like to go to
graduate school and become better able to help others. She
received a masters degree in social work and Christian
education at Scarritt College and was appointed to Wesley
Community House in Louisville, Kentucky. She was commissioned a
deaconess in 1946. In 1950 it became imperative that she work
closer to her ill parents. She accepted a teaching position at
Spartanburg Methodist College. She taught psychology, teacher
training courses, and was director of religious and social
activities. In 1952 after her father died it was necessary for
her to live at home. She was granted "leave of absence"
from the Womans Division, and returned to teaching in
public schools until an opportunity came to become Director of
Christian Education at First United Methodist Church, Forest
City, North Carolina, her home church.
Mattie Lou became a permanent resident of Brooks-Howell Home in
1992. She was a member of St. Pauls United Methodist
Church. Survivors include brothers Mark Summey and John Summey,
sisters-in law, and numerous nieces and nephews. Memorials may be
made to Brooks-Howell Home, The American Heart Association, or
The American Cancer Society.
Thelma
Mary Stouffer
March 15, 1917...........................January 10, 2003
Thelma
Stouffer was born in Carbondale, Pennsylvania, to John and Mary
Stouffer, the first of four daughters. The family was active in
the life of the church and in high school. Thelma committed
herself to deaconess service. She graduated from National College
in 1940 and was commissioned a deaconess at the Board of Missions
meeting in Cleveland, Ohio in 1943.
Her appointments included serving Washington Square Methodist
Church in downtown New York for two years. She was then appointed
to Broadway Temple in 1942. She was Director of Christian
Education, but often called on to assist the minister. During her
twenty-six years there the area underwent a major change in the
ethnic makeup to a predominately Hispanic population. This
necessitated development of a ministry for the people, including
learning Spanish.
Thelma was next called to serve in the Mission Personnel office
at the United Methodist General Board of Global Ministries. She
served there until her retirement in 1983. Upon retirement, she
was invited to serve as a volunteer chaplain three days a week at
Columbia Presbyterian Hospital. She served there eight years.
Thelma moved to Brooks-Howell Home on February 15, 1997. She was
a member of Haywood Street United Methodist Church.
She is survived by a sister, June S. Marsden, of Winston Salem,
North Carolina, and a number of nieces and nephews.
Memorial gifts may be given to Brooks-Howell Home for use in
special programming.
Marion E. Gruver
January 16, 1915..................December 1, 2002
Marion Gruver was born an only child to Fred and
Myra Gierkey in Le Porte County, Indiana. Growing up on a large
farm, she attended Union Mills School, graduating in 1934. She
was active in 4H, doing sewing and food preparation. After
graduation, Marion worked at a filling station-restaurant which
was on the main road to the west and to the Worlds Fair in
Chicago. That was where she met Paul, the son of the
stations owner. They began dating, i.e., going to church
choir practice. They were married July 4, 1936. They lived in
Union Mills several years and had two children, Loretta, born
December 18, 1937, and Howard, born September 16, 1939. Her
husbands work took them to South Bend and then to Elkhart,
Indiana.
Marion was wife, mother, and taxi driver as her children grew up.
She was a member of Calvary United Methodist Church in Elkhart
for fifty-six years. During that time she was president of the
United Methodist Women three different times and a circle leader
for many years. After Loretta felt Gods call to be a
missionary and went to Liberia in February 1964, they kept in
close touch, writing to each other every week for many years,
until war broke out in December 1989, and mail service was
disrupted. Marion led an effort in her local church to make baby
packs, rolled bandages, knit bandages, scrub suits, etc., for the
hospital at Ganta Mission where Loretta worked. She and her
husband were privileged to visit Liberia in 1973. Paul died in
1988. Since Loretta always made home headquarters during
furlough, it seemed very natural for Marion to join her in moving
to Brooks-Howell Home October 1, 1999. She later joined St.
Pauls United Methodist Church.
Eunice Olene Civils
October 16, 1931......................December 16. 2002
Olene Civils was born in Kinston,
North Carolina, to Mr. and Mrs. H. S. Civils. She joined an older
brother, Thomas, who died in 1993. Olene received her elementary
and secondary education in Kinston and went on to Eastern
Carolina University, where she majored in chemistry and biology.
She worked one year as a chemist before attending Scarritt
College, where she received her MA in Christian Education. From
1957-1984 she served as Christian Educator in the South Carolina
Conference, in Spartanburg Central, Greenville Buncombe Street,
Myrtle Beach First, Florence Central, and Greenville Trinity
churches. Olene was commissioned a deaconess in The Methodist
Church in 1958 at the Womans Assembly in St. Louis.
In 1985 Olene graduated from Duke Divinity School with a Master
of Divinity degree, and was ordained an elder. She served as
pastor at Bethel in Walterboro, Wesleyan Memorial in Chester, and
Bethel in Rock Hill. She retired in 1996. Following retirement
she lived in Mt. Pleasant, South Carolina, serving as associate
pastor three years at Hibben United Methodist Church. Olene was
active in and an officer of the Deaconess Association and on the
National Committee of deaconesses. She was also active in
Christian Educators Fellowship on the local, conference,
and jurisdictional levels. She became a resident of Brooks-Howell
in October 1999. She is survived by a niece, Darlene Burnette of
Kinston, NC. Memorial gifts will go to the Brooks-Howell Chapel
fund.
Twila Nadine
Hahn
February 6, 1918........................December 18, 2002
Twila Hahn was born in Bayard, Ohio, the daughter of Karl and
Ethel Hahn. Her father was a farmer and the family was active in
Bayard Methodist Church. She received her elementary education in
Bayard, graduating in 1936. She graduated from business school
and from Moody Bible Institute, and received her Bachelor of
Theology degree from Cleveland Bible College in 1944. Later she
studied at Scarritt College and received BS and MS degrees in
Education from Peabody College for Teachers. Twila read of the
need for workers at Navajo Methodist Mission School in
Farmington, New Mexico. She applied, was accepted, and moved
there in August 1944. From 1953 to 1954 she taught kindergartners
and first graders at Bisti (NM) Methodist Mission School. She was
commissioned a deaconess on January 20, 1956.
In 1975 Twila went to Harwood Girls School in Albuquerque,
New Mexico for two years. She returned to Farmington after the
school closed. In the 1980's the Navajo Nation was offered the
use of part of the campus for its school, Navajo Academy. After
two years the mission school was closed and the students taken
into Navajo Academy. It was a period of change and some tensions
as new relationships were worked out between the Mission Board
and the Navajo Nation. Twila faced many challenges. In 1991 the
Academy closed and a reorganized school, Navajo Preparatory
School, was opened. Because of cancer surgery, Twila had to
retire in 1991, but continued to live in Farmington until moving
to Brooks-Howell Home in August 1997. She is survived by a
sister, Theda Huff of Salt Lake City, and a brother, Wendell Hahn
of Piketon, Ohio. She was a member of St. Pauls United
Methodist Church in Asheville. Memorial gifts may be made to
Brooks-Howell Home for needs of residents.
Anne
Elizabeth Herbert
January 30, 1897...........................December 28, 2002
Anne Herbert was born in Florence, South Carolina, the fifth
child in a family of six girls and four boys. Her parents were
Rev. Walter I. and Mrs. Constance Furman Herbert. Her father was
a minister in the SC Conference for forty-eight years. Anne
graduated from high school in 1914, and received an AB from
Lander College in 1917. She taught in public school and Lander
College until she entered Scarritt Bible and Training School in
1919. She was there until 1921. In 1925 she received a Diploma in
Nursing from Johns Hopkins School of Nursing.
Having been active in Epworth League and with her mothers
help as South Carolina Conference Womans Missionary Society
president, Anne entered full time missionary service in 1925,
sailing to Shanghai, China. There she and several other
missionary nurses were instrumental in starting nursing classes
for Chinese students at Margaret Williamson Hospital School of
Nursing. Anne and the nursing staff taught the Chinese student
nurses practical things in nursing as well as medical subjects.
Her teaching was in Chinese after one year of language study. She
returned home in 1943 and lived in Sumter, South Carolina from
1947 to 1960. She received a MS in Nursing from Western Reserve
University in Cleveland, Ohio in 1947. Unable to return to Board
of Missions of China after the war, she left for Hong Kong in
1961 to do health work under the the church. Anne retired in
1965, living in Sumter and later in Spartanburg, South Carolina.
She moved to Brooks-Howell Home on September 1, 1989. She is
survived by a number of nieces and nephews, including David and
Dorothy Herbert and Hughes Roberts, all of Asheville.